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How To Manifest Your Soulmate – The Ultimate Guide

  • Post last modified:13. May 2022
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There’s nothing like love. When we fall head over heels for someone the sun shines brighter, there’s a spring in our step and life just seems sweeter. The feeling of abundance that follows love is indescribable so it’s no wonder so many of us want to manifest our soulmate.

If you’re on the emotional seesaw of love and are tired of the ups and downs then it’s time to manifest your soulmate. Attract the right person with the law of attraction and make it stick!

Table Of Contents

  1. Does The Universe Bring Soulmates Together?
  2. 10 Ways To Manifest Your Soulmate
  3. Psychic Readings

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Does The Universe Bring Soulmates Together?

The short answer: YES!

The long answer:

I firmly believe that the universe brings the souls together that belong together.
This can be the case even if we are not yet ready for it or already are in a long-term relationship.

Sometimes we already have our soul mate in our lives and just don’t recognize them or our life circumstances don’t allow us to see them.

To friends who remain in relationships they feel and know they finally have to end, I often say the following:

If you stay in this relationship, you keep the door closed for the universe to bring you the person you were ultimately meant to be with.

However, sometimes we are not yet ready to give up something we already have, to recognize new chances, or to open up again.

This is where the law of attraction comes into play:

With the law of attraction, we signal to the universe that we are ready and open to receive the person we are destined for.

The universe and the law of attraction can then eventually bring your soulmate into your life.

10 Effective Ways To Manifest Your Soulmate

1. Set Your Intention

If you want to manifest your soulmate you need to have an idea about who you want to attract.

Make a list of characteristics that you want in your partner and make what you want absolutely clear.

Are they tall or short? Funny or serious? What kind of job has your ideal partner? Build a profile and have fun with it!

When your intention is clear then the universe can bring you what you want.

Saying that you want to attract a new lover doesn’t guarantee that they will be the one you want to settle down with.

The universe will probably bring you a partner and relationship, but it will probably not be what you were hoping for.

If a soulmate is what you want then you need to project the right intention.

The universe needs to know that this person will be your last. Know what you want and write about your perfect soulmate with love.

Make sure that the qualities you outline for your dream partner are ones that are compatible with your own.

2. Clear Some Space And Create A Vacuum

Make room for love to enter your life by clearing out space in your life.

The laws of the universe state that when a vacuum is created something must enter into it.

If you barely have time, energy, and space for yourself how will you accommodate your soulmate?

Start with your home. Go through your closet and make piles of clothes that you want to keep and give away.

Imagine that your new partner is moving into your home and you both need the space. Add an extra toothbrush in your bathroom and sleep on one side of the bed. 

If you find that you’re constantly busy and don’t have any downtime for yourself, start to prioritize.

Are you making use of your time or are you wasting precious energy? Help the universe to help you.

Take inspired action and space in your life so your soulmate can walk into it.

3. Work On Yourself

If you were your soulmate, would you date you?

Now before you take that as an insult, think about it.

If you want a partner that is ambitious, sporty, and fun to be around but you’re uninspired, lazy, and cranky, does that add up?

Become the best version of yourself and you will manifest your soulmate.

Improving yourself doesn’t mean that you have to completely change your identity but rather that you should work to achieve your goals and discover happiness within yourself first.

Self-love is crucial. You should feel amazing, confident, and sexy. There’s nothing better than someone who values themselves and demands the very best.

You deserve to feel joy and you will find someone who matches your energy perfectly.

Work on yourself, for you.

Yes, your soulmate will manifest into your life as a result but you should take measures to grow and develop for you and you alone.

Unleash your inner God or Goddess and shine bright.

4. What Can You Offer In A Relationship?

You are a great person and you have so many qualities that are endearing about you.

Write them down and create a list full of self-love and appreciation!

Are you a good listener?

Are you a harmony-seeking person?

Do you love to affectionately take care of your partner?

We attract the energy we radiate.

So if we emphasize and value all our positive sides, we will attract someone who matches that vibration.

5. Take Action And Be A Team Player

Ok, ok, the law of attraction works and CAN work wonders, but you still should be a team player for the universe.

If you just sit at home and don’t dare to present yourself, for example, on partner-apps, then your dream partner can only find you if they deliver you a pizza.

It’s just like when you want to manifest money.

Of course, you can just wait to receive money in ANY way, for instance through prizes, but you make it easier for the universe if you prepare the channels.

As you invest in stocks, the Law of Attraction can send you money by increasing the value of the stocks. As you are developing your own business, the Law of Attraction can bring you customers.

Let’s apply this to dating:

I want you to present yourself and build up contact opportunities.

Now in corona times, this is undoubtedly more difficult, but you can be active on numerous dating apps and see which one suits you best.

Take some great, authentic pictures of yourself, and get started right away! This way you give your soulmate the opportunity to find you.

6. Affirmations

When you believe that you can have the soulmate that you want you will attract them, effortlessly. Affirmations can reprogram your mind and rewire your belief system.

If you are struggling with limiting beliefs and doubts are impacting your ability to attract your soulmate then affirmations are the way to go.

The affirmations that you use need to connect with you and resonate with you on a deep level.

You should feel inspired and joyful when you recite your affirmations. Think about what you want to achieve, make sure that it’s the end goal, and create affirmations based on them.

Be sure to write them in the present tense and watch your love life flourish.

Need some pointers? Here are some affirmations to help you manifest your soulmate:

  • I am so happy and grateful now that I have manifested my soulmate
  • I am in the relationship of my dreams
  • My life is full of love and happiness
  • My partner is my perfect match, they fill me with so much love
  • I feel at peace with my partner, they are perfect for me 
  • I am so happy that we are moving in together with my partner
  • I am happier than I’ve been ever before
  • My relationship gives me so much strength and support
  • I deserve to be in a happy and fulfilling relationship
  • I love to make future plans with my new partner

7. Scripting

I think I’ve emphasized it about 1000 times on this blog, but I absolutely and passionately love scripting and journaling for many, many reasons.

Manifesting your soulmate with scripting is fun, creative and it can work wonders.

Scripting is the process of writing out exactly what you want as if it has already happened. By using emotion and our senses to make it feel real we align ourselves with what we want.

Get a journal that you will enjoy writing in. It should feel special to you so that you can evoke the magic of manifestation.

My Favorite Amazon Picks For Journals:

Start to write out how you want your relationship to be. Talk about how your partner makes you feel, how you impact their life, and what kind of commitment you want.

You can even create a memory and write about your first date with them or how you spent a beautiful day together. Feel good when you are scripting and you will attract your ideal partner.

This is a great way to further clarify what you want in your relationship. It sets the tone for your expectations and is the perfect tool for manifesting your soulmate.

8. Gratitude

Being grateful should be part of your everyday routine. Focusing on what you’re thankful for will bring you life-changing amounts of abundance. When you use gratitude you draw your attention from what you perceive to be a lack of romance in your life. 

For instance, if you are complaining about something you are tuned into negativity. Moaning that you haven’t met your soulmate will negatively impact your ability to manifest the love that you want.

You can’t attract something if you are focusing on the fact that you don’t have it in your life.

Gratitude helps you to look at the bigger picture. When you are grateful the universe will conspire to bring more of it into your life. Say thank you for all the love in your life, even if it’s just platonic.

Be grateful for your exes and be thankful for all of the heartbreak that you have faced because it made you who you are today.

Now you know better what exactly you want from a relationship and can manifest your ultimate soulmate.

Most of all, feel good about being single and be grateful that you have been given this time to focus on the most important person in your life, you.

9. Visualize Your Soulmate

Visualizations are incredibly helpful to manifest your soulmate!

Visualize spending time with your soulmate, walking outside hand-in-hand, how they look when they laugh about your jokes, cuddling on the couch at night after work, etc.

Imagine and really experience how good it feels!

The interesting fact is that at some point the brain can no longer distinguish between reality and fantasy if you visualize things often enough and truly “internalize” them.

This will definitely help you increase your love vibrations!

Pro Tip:
Use Pinterest to manifest your soulmate.

Create pinboards and collect pins with great, super-in-love couples. Look at the pins and imagine that you and your soulmate were in the couples’ place!

10. Be Open To All Possibilities

Life is not black and white, it has all the shades in between.

No matter how many times we try to manifest that exact partner in those exact circumstances, we end up with something slightly different and that is just fine.

After all, the universe usually knows better what is good for us.

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My name is Elsa and I have been the face behind Spirithandbook for 3 years now. I hold a master's degree in psychology and combine the essence of the human mind with deeply rooted spirituality on my blog. Being Greek and German, whenever I'm not drinking coffee, I'm cuddling with my 3 cats Atlas, Cronos, and Gaia.

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